You Can Have Jesus and a Therapist Too

According to the National Alliance on Mental Illness in the United States 1 and 5 adults experience mental illness each year, 1 and 6 youth experience mental disorders each year, and 50% of all lifetime mental illness begins by age 14, and 75% by age 24.

You can have faith in God and go to therapy. Everyone has mental health and we need to pay attention to it. Therapy is investing in you; it doesn’t mean you’re a bad Christian. You're the only you that you have, the longest relationship, and the best thing you can do is take care of you. Jesus is our number one healer but just as He provides medical doctors for physical health He also provides us with therapists and counselors for our mental health. Therapy and counseling is a gift from Jesus.

In the church there is a stigma when it comes to seeing a therapist. Some Christians think that you should only rely on God and His power, we don’t need anything else.

Some may think going to a therapist or taking medication for mental health issues is weak faith. But it is dangerous to think that way. The bible says we also need each other along the way. God may be leading you into joining a support group, individual therapy, talking to friends, or taking medication. It can save your life. God wants you to be whole. If it takes therapy to make you whole and what God made you to be and you having a peaceful mind.

Then it’s okay to have Jesus and a therapist too!

If you are longing for healing for mental health seek God in prayer first with an opened heart and mind. Then seek counseling wherever God leads you. Getting help is not a sign of weakness it’s a sign of courage.

What Does the Bible Say About Therapy?

Thinking more positive, making your mind still, and giving forgiveness. Getting your love right, by taking care of your mental health. What we think influences our emotions and the way we think gives us peace.

Jesus said to him, “ ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.” -Matthew 22:37‭-‬40 NKJV

So he answered and said, “ ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind,’ and ‘your neighbor as yourself.’ ” -Luke 10:27 NKJV

Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things. -Philippians 4:8 NKJV

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. -Philippians 4:6‭-‬7 NKJV

Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for Him; Do not fret because of him who prospers in his way, Because of the man who brings wicked schemes to pass. -Psalms 37:7 NKJV

Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, For they shall be filled. Blessed are the merciful, For they shall obtain mercy. -Matthew 5:6‭-‬7 NKJV

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What You Need to Know About Suicide and Self-Harm

Disclaimer:

Information presented in this blog post may be triggering to some people. I am not a therapist or licensed health care provider. If you are in this situation, please for yourself and your loved ones, please get the appropriate help for your needs. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you're having suicidal thoughts, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) to talk to a skilled, trained counselor at a crisis center in your area at any time (National Suicide Prevention Lifeline). If you are located outside the United States, call your local emergency line immediately.

Facts About Self-Harm

Self-harm involves hurting or harming yourself to relieve stress or any overwhelming emotions. Self-harm starts in adolescents and young adults, it may or may not be a suicide attempt. Some examples are cutting or burning. Other forms of self-harm are hair pulling, biting, and hitting the body with objects. It’s not easy to tell if someone is hurting themselves, they are really good at hiding the scars. Here are signs to look for wearing long sleeves all the time especially in hot weather, unexplained cuts or bruises, bloodstains on clothing or bedding, and feelings of hopelessness. Self-harm is an unhealthy coping mechanism, it’s not a mental illness. There may be illnesses related to self-harm like depression and anxiety. People who self-harm usually target places that are not seen/covered by clothes like the arms, legs, and abs area. People that are at risk are people who experience being bullied, have been abused, have low self-esteem, and have an untreated mental illness. Self-harm is a very serious issue. It can have long-term effects and severe injuries. If not treated or dealt with by professional self-harm can lead to broken bones, permanent scarring, injured nerves, blood vessels, and muscles, suicide, or accidental death.

Facts About Suicide

Worldwide suicide is the second leading cause of death among young adults and teens. In the United States it is the 10th leading cause of death overall.

The National Institute of Mental Health defines suicide as a death caused by self-directed injurious behavior with intent to die as a result of the behavior. A suicide attempt is a non-fatal, self-directed, potentially injurious behavior with intent to die as a result of the behavior. A suicide attempt might not result in injury. Suicidal ideation(thoughts) refers to thinking about, considering, or planning suicide.

“Suicidal thoughts or actions are a sign of extreme distress, not a harmless bid for attention, and should not be ignored.” -The National Institute of Mental Health

The signs that someone may consider suicide varies. Here are some signs of someone who is thinking about suicide. When someone is talking about wanting to die, feeling empty and hopeless, feeling unbearable pain, withdrawing or isolation, showing behavior that can lead to death, and gives away important possessions. Suicide effects people of all ages, race, and genders. The risks factors for suicide are mental illness, chronic pain, family history, and family violence or abuse.

If You Know Someone in Crisis

Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (Lifeline) at 1-800-273-TALK (8255), *or text the Crisis Text Line (**text HELLO to 741741). Both services are free and available 24 hours a day, seven days a week. The deaf and hard of hearing can contact the Lifeline via TTY at 1-800-799-4889. All calls are confidential. Contact social media outlets directly if you are concerned about a friend’s social media updates or dial 911 in an emergency. Learn more on the Lifeline’s website or the Crisis Text Line’s website*.

The Veterans Crisis Line connects Service members and Veterans in crisis, as well as their family members and friends, with qualified, caring Department of Veteran’s Affairs (VA) responders through a confidential toll-free hotline, online chat, or text messaging service. Dial 1-800-273-8255 and Press 1 to talk to someone or send a text message to 838255 to connect with a VA responder. You can also start a confidential online chat session at veteranscrisisline.net/get-help/chat.

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How Childhood Trauma Affects You in Adulthood?

Trigger Warning: Information presented in this article may be triggering to some people. This blog contains discussions about childhood trauma.

Trauma is an overwhelming event that overcomes our capacity to cope. Trauma affects us emotionally, mentally, physically, and in our relationships. Examples of trauma that can affect childhood are sexual or physical abuse, natural disaster, car crash, neglect, and violence in the home. Adults who experience trauma as children are more likely to suffer from physical, mental, emotional conditions or illnesses, like post-traumatic stress disorder.

What is Childhood Trauma?

Defined by The National Institute of Mental Health as “the experience of an event by a child that is emotionally painful or distressful, which often results in lasting mental and physical effects.”

Trauma can affect a child by experiencing or witnessing something traumatic. Whether it was abuse or witnessing something like a car crash, those events can have a lasting impact on a child's development. Between the ages of newborn to 6 years old is when a child’s brain grows and develops, and is more vulnerable to trauma. The common types of trauma are abuse (physical, emotional, and sexual), neglect (abandonment, physical/emotional needs are not met), and child’s household/ environment (mental illness, substance abuse, domestic violence, or divorce).

Signs and Impact of Childhood Trauma

Adults who experience childhood trauma are most likely to have panic disorders and affective disorders.

Also called mood disorders, affective disorders are mental illnesses such as depression and bipolar. These disorders affect the way you think and feel. The symptoms may range from mild to severe. The symptoms of depression include extreme sadness, feeling hopelessness, or thoughts of suicide. The episodes of depression can last for days, weeks, months, or even years. There are many forms of depression-like major depressive disorder, persistent depressive, and postpartum depression.

Bipolar is a mood disorder that causes extreme mood swings. Bipolar disorder may have episodes of happiness followed by despair. Your mood shifts back and forth, it may happen once in a while or a few times in a short period of time.

Panic disorder also known as anxiety is an intense fear that can cause unexpected panic attacks. The symptoms of a panic attack may include a fast heartbeat, dizziness, chest pain, or shortness of breath. Panic attacks can happen without warning.

Symptoms of childhood trauma can also include flashbacks, emotional numbness, self-destructive and impulsive behavior, poor sleep (hard to go to sleep, stay asleep or wake up) wanting to sleep too much, nightmares, and physical symptoms like nausea and headaches, intense feelings of guilt, an altered sense of shame.

Healing from Childhood Trauma

As you may know, unresolved trauma can manifest itself as depression, anxiety, and many other ways. Recognizing those symptoms can be a sign of relief. Seeking help may be hard but it is also necessary. Healing from trauma is a long journey, it takes time. Here are three ways you can start to heal from childhood trauma.

Seek Therapy

Considering therapy is an important part of healing childhood trauma. Take your time to find a therapist that you are comfortable with. Whether it is group therapy, individual therapy, or both seek the right treatment for you. The treatment is according to your needs.

Write

Writing poetry, journaling, or short stories are ways that you can express yourself and your feelings. Writing is another form of therapy and includes health benefits.

Exercise

Exercise has many benefits in healing trauma. It contributes to weight loss, boosts the immune system, increases good physical health, and has a positive impact on mental health.

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Why is Mental Health Important?

What is the first thought you have when you hear about mental health? Most people associate mental health with only relating to illness. Mental health is part of our overall health.

What is Mental Health?

Mental health includes emotional, psychological, and social well-being. Mental health constitutes (be a part of a whole) wellness and illness. It affects thinking, mood, and behavior. Also, it affects daily living, relationships, and physical health. Mental health influences how you see yourself, your life, and other people.

What Is Mental Illness?

According to the American Psychiatric Association website. Mental illnesses are health conditions involving changes in emotion, thinking or behavior (or a combination of these). Mental illnesses are associated with distress and/or problems functioning in social, work or family activities.

Mental illness is a physical illness of the brain which changes the way you think, behave, energy or emotion and causes it to be difficult to cope. The common illnesses are anxiety and depression.

“ You can have anxiety but still sound confident. You can have depression but still, smile and make jokes. You can feel suicidal but still, turn up to work every day and appear fine.”

- The Depression Project

Mental Health Affects Physical Health

Studies show that mental illness impacts physical health directly and indirectly. For example, depression impacts mood and motivation but also can affect the immune system. People with depression often feel tired and overwhelmed and physically you become fatigued. Also, anxiety and anger can trigger heart attacks.

How to Improve Mental Health and Physical Health?

The key facts of being mentally healthy are that you can cope with life stresses, you become physically healthy, you can manage and be productive in work and relationships, and you know your own potential. There are several ways to take care of your mental health. The most important part of being mentally healthy is self-care and seeking counseling. Self-care involves good sleeping patterns, seeking activities that you enjoy, and taking a walk outside. Some people can also benefit from counseling or seeing a therapist. You don’t have to have a mental illness to seek a therapist.

Here are some other ways to practice self-care: 31 Tips To Boost Your Mental Health (Mental Health America).

Taking care of your mental health means that your physical health can improve and vice versa. Eating healthy, exercising, and taking a break from the screen (tv, tablet, computer, etc) are some ways you can improve your physical health.

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